Let us be truthful because lying gets nobody nowhere.
You will never succeed in getting men to agree to "fat acceptance." It goes against our nature.
Now you have two choices in how to respond to this;
a. ignore what I just said and get angry about a fact you have no control over and never will
b. accept this as fact and do what is within your power
I will be even more direct and blunt (see if you can guess what this is)
The appropriate range is 1.4/inch to 2.3/inch. And that is being kind.
Continue as you were.